It may feel like you are at a stand still in your marriage.

Like neither of you feel like doing anything different to make anything better.

Life just keeps getting in the way - There are so many things you could possibly "do" to work on your relationship - you end up not doing anything at all.

Yup. I get it.

 

"Results are directly determined by how narrow you can make your focus" - Gary Keller

Instead of trying to do "all the things"

Or Ignoring your marriage completely...why not go SUPER small and SUPER focused?

 

Because: Small steps in a different direction can create big results

I've talked about taking small steps to better your marriage before - 

Focus on one thing your spouse does well - then telling them that they do that One thing well.

  • It gets you focused on the positive

Read one marriage book - Then put into practice the things it says.

  • Its easy to try and read "All the Books" - and never put anything into practice!

Pick one area that you want to work on in your marriage.

  • Take the pressure off, and focus on one small area: Sex, Finances, Friends, Parenting...You decide...then focus there for a little bit and see what happens.

 

Let me know what small thing you are going to work on in YOUR Marriage!

 

Ps - check out the "Related Episode" linked below to hear more ideas...⤵️

Marriage Encouragement

Stu Gray

Stu is: A husband, father, son.
He Is a Speaker and encourager
He produces podcasts and is an audiobook narrator

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